I came across a blog called Sri Chinmoy Inspiration which is a blog on Self improvement written by Tejvan Pettinger and where I found several interesting posts.
The post about How to distinguish between love and emotional dependence is great, I like this part:
True love means loving people for who they are, not trying to channel them into who you want them to be.
That is similar to a text I have on my wall:
Love me as I am and not as I should be.
Note: Photo by Alone….
This was originally posted at another (now extinct) blog of mine.